Safety Tips

Your safety is our priority. Follow these guidelines to protect yourself while searching for your life partner on BrethrenMT.

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Profile Safety

check_circleNever share financial information such as bank account details, credit card numbers, or income proof on your profile or in messages.
check_circleUse the elder verification feature to confirm the authenticity of profiles you are interested in.
check_circleKeep your contact details (phone number, home address) private until you have established trust through the platform.
check_circleUpload recent and genuine photographs. Report any profiles that appear to use fake or misleading images.

chat

check_circleAlways use BrethrenMT's built-in messaging system for initial conversations. This protects your privacy and creates a record.
check_circleDo not share personal phone numbers, email addresses, or social media handles too early in the conversation.
check_circleTake your time getting to know someone. Genuine matches will respect your pace.
check_circleBe cautious of anyone who pressures you to move conversations off the platform quickly.

groups

check_circleAlways meet in a public place for your first meeting, such as a church, restaurant, or community center.
check_circleInform your family members or trusted friends about your meeting plans, including location and time.
check_circleInvolve your Assembly Elders in the process, especially when discussions become serious.
check_circleConsider having a family member or elder accompany you during initial meetings.
check_circleTrust your instincts. If something feels wrong, do not hesitate to leave.

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check_circleNever send money to someone you have met online, regardless of the reason they give.
check_circleBe wary of anyone who brings up financial difficulties or asks for financial help early in the interaction.
check_circleDo not share bank account details, UPI IDs, or payment information with matches.
check_circleReport anyone who solicits money or makes financial requests through the platform.
check_circleBe cautious of profiles that seem too good to be true or make unrealistic promises.

warning

check_circleInconsistent information: details in their profile that do not match what they tell you.
check_circleRefusal to undergo elder verification or provide assembly details.
check_circlePressure to make quick decisions about marriage without involving family.
check_circleEvasive answers about their background, family, or assembly affiliation.
check_circleRequests for money, gifts, or financial assistance.
check_circleUnwillingness to meet in person or involve family members.
check_circleAggressive, controlling, or disrespectful behavior in messages.

flag

check_circleUse the 'Report' button on any profile or message to flag suspicious behavior.
check_circleOur safety team reviews all reports within 24 hours.
check_circleYou can block any member at any time through their profile page.
check_circleReports are confidential. The reported member will not know who filed the report.
check_circleIf you believe you are in immediate danger, contact local law enforcement immediately.

emergency

If you ever feel unsafe or suspect fraudulent activity, do not hesitate to reach out.

mail

BrethrenMT Support

call

Women Helpline

181 (India)

local_police

Cyber Crime

cybercrime.gov.in